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5 Expert Lingerie Shopping Tips to Help You Find Pieces You’ll Love (and Actually Wear!)

Shopping for lingerie should feel empowering, exciting, and—yes—fun. The right pieces don’t just make you look beautiful, they make you feel beautiful. Maybe it’s been years since you last treated yourself to something new, or maybe your lingerie drawer is already full of favorites. Either way, a little expert advice can help you find pieces that fit, flatter, and feel like they were made just for you.

We asked our team of lingerie lovers to share their best tips, and here’s what they suggest for your next shopping trip.

1. Get Measured!

If you’ve been wearing the same bra size since forever, chances are your fit could use a refresh. Bodies change over time, and every brand sizes a little differently. A quick professional fitting is the easiest way to make sure you’re starting with the right foundation for comfort, support, and shape.

Can’t make it to a store? Book a virtual fitting or follow a trusted measuring guide at home. This one small step can completely change how your lingerie looks and how it feels.

2. Shop with your lifestyle in mind

Lingerie isn’t just for special occasions—it’s for you, every day. If you live in fitted tops and dresses, look for smooth, lightly lined cups that disappear under clothes. If your work-from-home wardrobe is all about comfort, bralettes and soft-cup styles might be your new best friends. And if you love a little luxury in your everyday routine, lace details or a beautiful matching set can make even a Monday morning feel special.

Pro tip: Start with strong everyday basics that feel just as good as they look—you’ll wear them more than you think.

3. Invest in Timeless Staples

We’re all for bold, showstopping lingerie, but your drawer also needs a few MVPs you can wear with anything. Think high-quality bras in nude, black, or soft blush. A smooth T-shirt bra, a versatile plunge, and a classic balconette can cover most outfit needs.

One staple our team loves? The Montelle Flirt Demi Lace Bra. With both comfort and style, this one’s sure to be a timeless staple and your new go-to.

4. Notice Fabric and Details

The prettiest lingerie is even better when it feels amazing. Quality fabrics like silk, satin, and fine lace not only last longer but also make you feel like you’re wearing something truly special. Look for soft stretch lace that moves with you, straps that don’t dig in, underwire that sits just right, and breathable materials that keep you comfortable from morning to night. Because lingerie should always be a treat—not a chore.

5. Never Underestimate the Power of a Matching Set

There’s just something about a matching bra and panty set that makes you feel instantly more put-together—even if you’re the only one who knows you’re wearing it. It’s a tiny detail that makes a big difference in confidence.

For a bright, fun option, we’re loving our Elsie lace set in yellow. Or, check out our customizable set options sets if you like to create your own perfect pairings.

Bottom line: Lingerie shopping should never feel overwhelming. It’s all about curating pieces that make you feel amazing. And if you’d like to skip the guesswork, we’d love to help. Book a virtual styling appointment with one of our lingerie experts for a personalized experience that’s all about finding pieces you’ll love for years to come.